You're NOT Average
You're striving for exceptional, and your approach to
relationships should be too.
Avoid these 5 Relationship Killers:
Conventional Advice from Relationship Coaches that is Hurting High Performers
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I broke my lease and moved on pure intuition to Arizona. I knew my future husband would be there.
I met him two months after moving. He proposed two months later. Three months after that, we were married.
In our first year of marriage, we raised $1.1 million for his world-record Antarctic expedition, spent 4 months apart, and traveled the world, while I ran a business at full capacity. Yet, our relationship remained the most peaceful part of our lives.
Not by accident. By design
We had hard conversations, co-created a plan to address issues proactively, and laid a rock-solid foundation.
We didn’t follow the traditional rules of dating.
We created our own.
Because average advice gives you an average relationship.
And you’re not here for average.
Your goals are epic. Your relationship should be too.
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I help high performers find and create thriving, peaceful relationships, while pursuing their goals at the highest level.
If you’re a high achiever, you’ve probably been told to slow down to succeed in love. But the truth is, you don’t need to shrink your ambition to have an extraordinary relationship. You just need a better strategy.
My husband and I are living proof that it’s possible to maintain a peaceful, powerful connection even in the most demanding seasons of life.
I combine neuroscience, biology, and lived experience, to help ambitious people break free of patterns that hold them back in love. My signature topics include:
- Love at the Speed of Ambition: A blueprint for high performers to build thriving relationships that amplify their success.
- Your Relationship as a Sanctuary: How to make your relationship the most peaceful part of your life. Practical tools to resolve issues without fighting.
- Sustaining the Honeymoon Phase: Proven frameworks to build and maintain chemistry, passion, and deep, lasting connection.
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What People Are Saying
With Melissa’s guidance, I have been able to approach building relationships with grace, courage and authenticity. Her advice has allowed me to move forward from the binds of a toxic relationship to dating high-value men aligned with my desires. Experiencing Melissa’s coaching has been one of the most treasured experiences of my adulthood.
So moved by who Melissa is and her love story. Their relationship is as important and profound as Akshay's solo expedition across Antarctica. Their love, collaboration, and aligment is a work of art. Thank you for being a powerful example of what's possible and what true partnership looks like. Raising the bar for us all.
Melissa Nanavati is a world-class speaker and relationship expert who has mastered both the framework and the transformative embodiment of her work. Learning from her mastery offers the most valuable insight, serving as the mirror that accelerates your own path to mastery.
Akshay and Melissa have created a proactive approach to their relationship that builds trust and psychological safety at its core. When I work with couples in therapy, we typically have to go back and repair cracks in the foundation that started early. But they've created a foundation that prevents cracks from forming in the first place.
I hired Melissa as a speaker for my men’s group, and we expanded the event to be co-ed. The result was transformative. Melissa’s insights were profound, and I walked away from the event feeling more equipped to have difficult conversations. The way she decoded the dynamics of connection, chemistry, and intimacy made me feel more secure in the evolution of my next relationship. It’s amazing how much work she’s done in the field, as well as on herself. Her ability to speak to these topics so eloquently is truly a blessing. I’m grateful for the wisdom she shared, and I’m already looking forward to having her speak to our group again.
Akshay and Melissa are an incredible pair with a fantastic story. Their open and clear communication about their goals and passions really sets a high standard for what a strong relationship looks like. They're genuinely inspiring.
Avoid these 5 Relationship Killers:
Conventional Advice from Relationship Coaches that is Hurting High Performers
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